Grayer & Gayer

Trans Voices: Finn's Place Part Two

In this conversation, the David and Jeffrey chat with Finn's Place board members Nat & Mikey. The discussion centers on gender identity, the challenges faced by the trans community, and the importance of supportive relationships. Nat & Mikey share personal experiences related to bathroom safety, public spaces, and the political landscape affecting trans rights. The discussion emphasizes the need for community, acceptance, and the journey of self-discovery, while also addressing misconceptions about gender identity and the importance of being true to oneself.
 
Finn's Place: www.finnsplacetx.org

Trans Voices: Living on the front lines in Fort Worth | S2 E5

This conversation explores the vital role of ⁠Finn's Place⁠, a community center in Fort Worth dedicated to supporting the transgender community. The discussion highlights the importance of understanding gender identity, the challenges faced by trans individuals, and the significance of allyship. Through personal stories and insights from the guests, the conversation emphasizes the need for community support, activism, and the celebration of diverse identities.

Just Us: Satire, News, Sighs & Laughs | S2 E4

In this episode of Grayer and Gayer, Jeffrey starts off the show with a little satire on the state of fragile white men. Then hosts David and Jeffrey discuss the SAVE Act and its implications for voting rights and trans rights in America. They reflect on the historical context of American identity, the importance of activism, and the need for inclusion in the fight for social justice. The conversation also touches on recent cultural events, local government actions, and the role of media in shaping public perception. The hosts emphasize the importance of community engagement and activism, encouraging listeners to take action and support trans rights organizations. They conclude with reflections on hope and resilience in the face of adversity.
 
Need Help?
Trans Lifeline at 877-565-8860.
translifeline.org.
Trevor Project at 866-488-7386

Endure & Empower: Our Democracy, our Populace, and Ourselves | S2 E3

 
In this episode, David & Jeffrey sit down with Ted Guice, a seasoned fitness trainer, to explore the importance of health and wellness within the LGBTQ community. Ted shares his personal journey in the fitness industry, his experiences with HIV, and how aging impacts physical well-being. They also discuss his advocacy for community engagement and visibility in the fight for better health.
 
At the top of the show, David and Jeffrey dive into the current political climate affecting LGBTQ rights and pay tribute to Marsha P. Johnson, honoring her legacy in the fight for equality.
 
The conversation wraps up with insights into emerging health trends and practical ways to maintain a strong and balanced lifestyle at any age.
 
Stay connected. Stay proud. We’ll see you next time!
 
Chapters
00:00 Defending Inclusivity in the LGBTQ+ Community
01:54 Current Events Impacting LGBTQ+ Rights
19:09 Honoring Marsha P. Johnson
21:50 Health and Fitness: Preparing for Activism
26:43 Introduction to Ted Guice and His Journey
 
Ted Guice: TedGuice.com
 
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Rainbow Dots Across America: Our Queer Community Centers | S2 E2

 
In this conversation, the David and Jeffrey sit down with James Lindquist, the Director of Development at the Palm Spings LGBTQ Center to explore the journey of community building within the LGBTQ community, focusing on personal experiences with HIV, the importance of LGBTQ centers, and the role of allyship. They discuss mental health, fundraising events, and the need for safe spaces, emphasizing the significance of individual donations and community support. The conversation highlights the impact of aging within the LGBTQ community and the necessity of engaging allies to foster inclusivity and support.

Blue Dots Across America: Our Existence is Resistance | S2 E1

In this episode of Grayer and Gayer, the David & Jeffrey discuss the current state of LGBTQ+ rights amidst political challenges, personal reflections on mental health, and the importance of community and activism. They celebrate recent victories in LGBTQ+ representation while emphasizing the need for continued resistance against discrimination. The conversation highlights resources for staying informed and safe, the power of joy as a form of resistance, and actionable steps for listeners to get involved in advocacy efforts.
 
Websites & Resources
L.A. Disaster Recovery Handbook •LAdisasterrecoveryhandbook.org
Meta: Transparency on Hateful Conduct Policy • transparency.meta.com
Erin in the Morning • erininthemorning.com
ALOK • alokvmenon.komi.io/
Southern Equality: Transgender Youth Empowerment • southernequality.org
Democracy Forward • democracyforward.org
Democracy Docket • democracydocket.com
Democracy 2025 • democracy2025.org
Safe Space Alliance • safespacealliance.com
Goods Unite Us • goodsuniteus.com
AllStora • allstora.com

Thriving in Chaos: Self-Care in Dystopia | H1 E1

In this episode of the Grayer and Gayer Show, hosts Jeffrey and David discuss the emotional aftermath of a tumultuous election, emphasizing the importance of self-care, community, and resilience. They share personal coping strategies, the significance of staying informed, and the power of art and expression in times of distress. The conversation highlights the need for hope and the role of kindness in fostering connections within the LGBTQ+ community. As they reflect on the challenges ahead, they encourage listeners to embrace change and remain engaged in the fight for equality and justice.

The Season One Wrap Up | S1 E11

In this final episode of Season One, Jeffrey and David reflect on their journey through podcasting, discussing the growth and enjoyment they've experienced, the importance of authenticity, and the political responsibilities that come with their platform. They share memorable moments from the season, express gratitude for their guests, and outline their aspirations for the future, emphasizing the need for empathy and understanding in the LGBTQ+ community.

Better Latent Than Never—Part 2: Navigating Identity in Later Life | S1 E10

In this episode, David & Jeffrey engage in a heartfelt conversation with Ciana Costa, who shares her journey of coming out as a transgender woman at the age of 50. The discussion covers the challenges and triumphs of transitioning later in life, the importance of family acceptance, and the impact of surgeries on identity. Ciana emphasizes the significance of community support and the need for understanding and acceptance in society. The conversation also touches on the political landscape affecting transgender rights and the importance of voting. Ciana's story is one of resilience, authenticity, and the power of living one's truth.
 
Erin Reed: Independent Journalist - @⁠ErinInTheMorning⁠ on Instagram, ⁠www.erininthemorning.com⁠
Mercury Stardust: The Trans Handy Ma'am - @⁠mercurystardusttopz⁠ on Instagram

Better Latent Than Never—Part 1: Navigating Identity in Later Life | S1 E9

In this episode of Grayer and Gayer, Jeffrey and David speak with Paul Elliott. He shares his heartfelt journey of coming out as a gay man, reflecting on the challenges he faced with family acceptance, societal expectations, and the importance of community support. He discusses the emotional turmoil of living a lie, the joy of finding love later in life, and the significance of living authentically. Paul emphasizes the need for connection within the LGBTQIA+ community and offers advice for those still in the closet, encouraging them to seek support and embrace their true selves.

True Colors Shining Through: Love & Relationships | S1 E8

In this conversation, David & Jeffrey, and their guest explore the complexities of love, relationships, and personal growth, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. They discuss the importance of communication, the impact of aging on relationships, and the journey of self-discovery. The conversation also touches on the role of sexuality in relationships and offers advice for younger generations navigating love and intimacy.
 
Wise words from Whoopi: www.facebook.com/reel/1076065530829712

Life After Loss: Navigating Grief and Sorrow | S1 E7

In this episode David and Jeffrey talk with Thompson Lang and explore the profound journey of grief experienced by the loss of his husband, Joe Vargo, during the COVID-19 pandemic. It delves into the unique challenges faced by the LGBTQ community in navigating loss, the impact of shared history, and the importance of community support. Thompson shares heartfelt memories, the struggles of grieving alone, and the process of rediscovering life and love after loss. The discussion highlights the ongoing nature of grief, the lessons learned, and the ways in which Thompson honors Joe's memory while embracing new experiences.