Grayer & Gayer

Grayer & Gayer is a podcast hosted by David Begor and Jeffrey Wylie, two men in their 60s who aim to explore the unique experiences, challenges, and triumphs of the LGBTQ+ community. The hosts discuss a range of topics including pride & community, relationships, activism, and the importance of building community among queer people. They also will discuss retirement and financial planning topics with their regular contributor, Derek Lenington, who will serve as their financial coach.

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Episodes

Monday Sep 16, 2024

In this conversation, David, Jeffrey, along with guest Nancy Beverly explore the themes of hiking, aging, and the importance of maintaining physical and mental health through outdoor activities. They discuss personal experiences with hiking, the challenges of aging, and the significance of community and connection in outdoor pursuits. The conversation emphasizes the need for mindfulness, the benefits of staying active, and the role of technology in ensuring safety while hiking. Ultimately, the discussion highlights the joy of being in nature and the importance of making conscious choices for a fulfilling life.
Nancy Beverly's Novel: ⁠Shelby's Vacation ⁠»
Palm Springs Hiking Trails: ⁠visitpalmsprings.com⁠ »

Monday Sep 09, 2024

In this conversation, David & Jeffrey discuss the importance of legal rights and advocacy for LGBTQ seniors. They cover topics such as estate planning, healthcare proxies, and the role of wills and trusts. They emphasize the need for LGBTQ seniors to regularly review and update their end-of-life documents. The conversation also touches on the fear of aging and the importance of having an advocate. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of legal security and peace of mind for LGBTQ seniors.
 
Five Wishes: Developed as an advance care plan (ACP) to address personal, emotional, and spiritual wishes, in addition to medical treatment.
https://www.fivewishes.org
 
NOLO: Information and tools that help people from all walks of life resolve their legal issues.
https://www.nolo.com
 
FreeWill: providing free access to will-making service.
Freewill.com

Monday Sep 02, 2024

In this conversation, David & Jeffrey discuss the importance of creative expression and art in our lives. They talk about  how they found fulfillment through their creative pursuits. They emphasize the need for creative outlets and how they contribute to personal happiness and fulfillment while also discussing the impact of art on child development and the benefits of art classes. Overall, the conversation highlights the universality and significance of creativity in all aspects of life, the importance of art in healing, pursuing creative passions, leaving a legacy, and advice to younger selves. 
 
Banksky Girl w/Red Balloon: youtu.be/2kTwpOxEgzM?si=Dgx2r2DrSCCfHVsr⁠
Max Alexander ⁠maxalexander.shop⁠, ⁠youtube.com/shorts/pE_55kxbzKQ?si=BQIJET_gCZ7HHJGC⁠
National Gallery of Art LGBTQ section nga.gov/features/lgbtq-queer-artists-art-history.html⁠ 
Watch: Where The Bears Are: wherethebearsare.tv⁠
Joe Dietl Art: dietlart.com⁠
Ben Zook - The Dirty Show featuring America's favorite actor-singer-dancer-psychic, Sklyer Gentry!: facebook.com/thedirtyshowwithskylergentry/⁠
Rick Copp - Actor - Author - Producer - Screenwriter: rickcopp.com

Monday Aug 26, 2024

In this episode David & Jeffrey focus on building community among queer people and fostering intergenerational connections. They discuss, along with Millennial Luke Elick, the importance of role models and mentorship, as well as the challenges faced by younger generations in finding affordable housing and fitting into the gay community. They also touched on the acceptance of bisexuality and the impact of technology on social interactions. Overall, the conversation emphasized the need for individuals to take initiative in creating and supporting LGBTQ+ communities.
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Camp Lost Boys
⁠www.camplostboys.org⁠
Camp Lost Boys is a traditional summer sleep-away camp for men of transgender experience over the age of 18.
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GLAAD
glaad.org/transgender/resources/
List of Resources for Transgender People
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The LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert
⁠thecentercv.org⁠
Creating vibrant community by helping LGBTQ+ people along their way.
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CenterLink, The Community of LGBTQ Centers
www.lgbtqcenters.org
CenterLink is an international nonprofit organization and member-based association of LGBTQ centers and other LGBTQ organizations serving their local and regional communities.

Monday Aug 19, 2024

Grayer & Gayer Show: In this episode the conversation revolves around the topic of Pride events and their relevance in today's society. David & Jeffrey discuss their personal experiences with Pride and the importance of embracing one's sexual orientation and gender identity. They also interview a guest, Mitch Battersby, who shares his involvement in Pride and the impact it has had on his life. The conversation touches on the history of Pride and the need for safe spaces for the LGBTQ+ community. The hosts also mention the upcoming Palm Springs Pride event and encourage listeners to get involved and volunteer.
 
Volunteer for Palm Springs Pride at: www.eventeny.com/events/festival-2024-10668/

Friday Aug 09, 2024

Grayer & Gayer Show: In this first episode David & Jeffrey will share who they are and why they decided to create this podcast. They'll introduce their regular contributor, Derek Lenington, who will serve as their financial coach to help with discussions of retirement and financial planning.
 

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